When you are a positive person and have an optimistic outlook on life, positively, great things will happen in your life. If you find it difficult being happy for someone else's success or good fortunate, it's time to evaluate your life and find out why it bothers you to see other's win. I was always taught to never be envious of what someone else has, because you don't know what they did to get it, how hard they worked, or the favor God has on their life. God broke the mold when he made you, walk in your own destiny. Whatever you desire in life; work hard, love hard, and pray harder. I'm in competition with no one but myself, and I challenge myself to be a better person than I was the day before. Go get it (your name) ! Remember to show kindness to others in your own pursuit of walking in your destiny, for there will be others that are instrumental to your journey to personal fulfillment.
The Golden Rule was one of the first sets of values we learned as children. “Do unto others as you would have them do until you”, yet it seems we have lost sight of that. As a parent and adult it is important that we set an example for the younger generation. Show kindness when it's not given, love when it's not reciprocated, and forgiveness even if your heart is not ready. You are what put out and the more goodness you give the greater you become!
Take care of yourself from the inside out. Treat your mind, body, and soul well. Live a life that is pleasing. Colossians 1:10 "That ye might walk worthy of the Lord unto all pleasing, being fruitful in every good work, and increasing in the knowledge of God."